booty call

12-02-2002, 08:31 PM

90%Attitude

booty call

quote:
And Attitude - my friend isn't pursuing him anymore. She wants a sure thing

If she isn't pursuing him, then why would she care one way or the other why he didn't come back for more?

12-02-2002, 09:43 PM

Professor Kingsfield

Buy your friend a vibrator for Christmas. Far more dependable and with no less feeling.

12-02-2002, 10:30 PM

quickquickslow

quote:
Originally posted by Professor Kingsfield:
Buy your friend a vibrator for Christmas. Far more dependable and with no less feeling.

But vibrators don't cuddle! Oh, well, I guess I have some shopping to do. Now what will my friend like the best? Magic Wand, Hello Kitty or The Rabbit? hmmm...

12-02-2002, 10:33 PM

quickquickslow

quote:
Originally posted by 90%Attitude:

quote:
If she isn't pursuing him, then why would she care one way or the other why he didn't come back for more?

My guess is that she wants to have him again. He must've been pretty good.

12-02-2002, 11:11 PM

quickquickslow

I just thought of the next possible breakthrough in vibrator technology - vibrators that cuddle and tell you everything you want to hear, and keep their promises, and mix drinks too (at light, med and turbo speeds)

12-02-2002, 11:28 PM

Mark Herschberg

To answer this question, you must first ask, why do people have booty calls?

- Sex / fun
- Loneliness / companionship
- Curiosity / excitement / experimentation
- "Conquest"
- Looking for something more (e.g. relationship)
- Validation (e.g. after just getting dumped)
- Revenge
- Pity
- Friendship (e.g. cheering up a friend)

For some of these reasons, once is enough.

--Mark

12-02-2002, 11:42 PM

Chris Stratton

I'm going to try to answer this with a practical rather than moral argument: anyone who is really worth it tonight is worth waiting a little while for. How long is of course a matter of personal decision - 24 hours, weeks, months, "until marriage", whatever. The point is that if two people can't find creative ways to enjoy each other's private company short of resorting to the eternal obvious itself, then they will probably find the obvious rather boring the minute it is over. Proceeding in stages not only gives you lots of chances to back out with fewer regrets, it keeps a sense of anticipation there to bring you back together. Go ahead and rush through things fairly quickly if that suits you both, but at least take enough time to enjoy and contemplate the journey.

12-03-2002, 08:37 AM

Joe

Yeah, but that's not the purpose of the booty call, is it? It's supposed to be no-strings-attached, not the beginning of a relationship.

12-03-2002, 08:47 AM

Graham

There were some adverse reactions to an innuendo filled thread recently. Does this qualify as being innuendo free? Is this more acceptable?
G
(closed questions can be fun)